Saturday, January 8, 2011

does first impressions really count?

i donno about you guys, but i know what chemistry feels like between one person to another... an without a word being said, between me and that particular person, with just eye contact, body movements, facial expressions, hand gestures, to even the "look tag game" when one stops an stares, an catches the other looking, so the other looks away... an vice versa... i think we all have experienced what im talking about, but the question still remains, does the "first" impression really count? the first time you saw that particular person, an just came up with a quick judgment of weather you like em or not... 

2 comments:

  1. Part of me wants to say yes they do count but another part says no. I know we are programmed to believe they do, but you never know what might have been going on in that persons life that day they may have only showed you a representative. But I will say this I believe only a certain few of people were born with looking below the surface. So they are able to really understand how someone may be on the first encounter for the rest the first couple of impressions count lol.

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  2. now that is one thinking woman ;) an i do agree with very few people having the ability to see past physical appearance... but i think first impressions shouldnt count at all... its where opening your mind comes into play... but nevertheless, there is always an exception to the rules...

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